Love is the Tuesdays

Practical, should-have-been-obvious ways you can show your spouse you love them throughout the day. Inspired by the song "Tuesdays" by Jake Scott.

"Love's not only the best days, or the worst days. Love is the Tuesdays."

Life and love are full of big, important days. Grand gestures are romantic and amazing. Your wedding day is so special and arguably one of the most important days of your life. There will be lows in life too, as we know. The never-forget-how-bad, worst-day-of-your-life days. But life's not all highs and lows. In fact, most of life - and therefore most of your marriage- is lived not in the high's and lows. It's the regular average day. Your average Tuesday.

So, here are 10 practical, should-have-been-obvious, little ways you can show your spouse you love. Because though small, these little things add up to the big memories.

1. Morning Greetings: Start the day by greeting your spouse with a warm smile and a loving "good morning." A simple acknowledgment of their presence can set a positive tone for the rest of the day.
   

2. Listen Actively: Take the time to truly listen when your spouse speaks. Put away distractions like phones or TVs, make eye contact, and engage in the conversation. Active listening shows that you value their thoughts and feelings, even if it's just a few minutes each day.
   

3. Acts of Service: Show your love through actions by helping out with daily chores or tasks without being asked. Whether it’s making breakfast, doing the dishes, or folding laundry, these small acts of service can make a big difference.
   

4. Random Texts or Calls: Send your spouse a thoughtful text or give them a quick call during the day just to say you’re thinking of them. It doesn’t have to be elaborate; even a simple "I love you" message can brighten their day.
   

5. Surprise Lunch Dates: If possible, surprise your spouse with a lunch date or drop off their favorite meal at work. It’s a thoughtful gesture that shows you went out of your way to make their day a little better. If they pack their lunch, drop a little love note inside.
   

6. Express Gratitude: Take a moment to express gratitude for your spouse and the things they do for you. Whether it’s thanking them for making dinner or acknowledging their support, expressing appreciation strengthens your bond.
   

7. Physical Affection: Don’t underestimate the power of physical touch. Whether it’s holding hands, hugging, or a simple kiss on the cheek, physical affection reinforces your connection and affection for each other.
   

8. Plan Quality Time: Set aside dedicated time each day to spend with your spouse, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Whether it’s over breakfast, during an evening walk, or before bed, quality time together strengthens your relationship.
   

9. Remember Special Dates: Make an effort to remember and acknowledge special dates like anniversaries, birthdays, or milestones. It shows that you value and cherish the moments you’ve shared together.
   

10. Goodnight Rituals: Before going to bed, take a moment to reconnect with your spouse. Whether it’s sharing highlights from the day, saying a prayer together, or simply cuddling, ending the day on a loving note fosters intimacy and connection.
    

"Is it's not just picture perfect dancing in a white dress. It's not just rainy days when nothing stops the fighting. It's not just highs and lows, and champagne toast. I've come to know that love's not only the best days or the worst days. Love is the Tuesdays."